Declining Well
Writes a no that protects the relationship and does not leak into a reluctant yes two messages later.
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Running it, start to finish
- Confirm it is a no rather than a not-yet.
- Send one brief true reason, or none.
- Hold with the same line if pushed, without elaborating.
What you get back
The output this produces, every time.
- Checks whether this is a genuine no or a not-yet, which need different messages.
- Gives one reason or none, since an elaborate justification invites point-by-point negotiation.
- Prepares the single line to hold with, without adding a second reason.
Getting better results
Where this usually goes wrong, and how to avoid it.
- Never invent a reason. It gets remembered and later contradicted by something you do. A brief true reason or none at all.
- Decline in the clear. 'I don't think I can' is heard as an opening position. Say you are not going to.
- Do not add a second reason when pushed. It signals the first one was negotiable. Repeat the same line warmly and stop.
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